When a child is born, the first emotional, physical & spiritual contact is with its mother. Science says that a son is more attached to his mother & a daughter to his father.
Now, are you feeling a few things, which I am going to mention now?
Your boyfriend or husband or love, as you may call, is always more inclined towards his mother & his family?
Are you coming late on his priority list?
Is your time with him, split into two zones?
Are his decisions taken after consideration with his mother? Are those more angled towards his family first?
Do you say to him that you are such a Muma’s boy?
Ladies, what I am going to say might be an eye-opener or you may feel otherwise.
In a world when even nuclear families fail to exist, there is nothing wrong if he makes effort to stay on those.
If you have a brother or two, how would you feel if your parents feel ignored? Doesn’t sound good to me!!
Yes, I have a brother & I play a vital role in most of his decisions. Anyways, I don’t find that alarming. I understand his stance & what his girl might feel too.
Yet, now, take a pause on this note, and look at yours too. You don’t have to base your decisions because he took his.
You may be late in priority, but when you need him the most, if he isn’t there, move on girl!!
Any life-changing event’s decision should have your, your family’s, his & his family’s consent. This isn’t a competition who came first.
Do note, if his folks think of you before taking any steps. We don’t like selfish ones.
Don’t blame him to be a Muma’s boy, but don’t let your importance stand in a puddle.
Take a stand & Give him respect. Go mutually not at par.
Keep loving fellas!!